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1.
I've been
romantic and imaginative.
pragmatic and down to earth.
2.
I have tended to
take on confrontations.
avoid confrontations.
3.
I have typically
been
diplomatic, charming,
and ambitious.
direct, formal, and idealistic.
4.
I have tended to
be
focused and intense.
spontaneous and
fun-loving.
5.
I have been a
hospitable person
and have enjoyed
welcoming new friends
into my life.
private person and
have not mixed much
with others.
6.
Generally, it's
been
easy to "get a rise"
out of me.
difficult to "get
a rise" out of me.
7.
I've been more of
a
"street-smart" survivor.
"high-minded" idealist.
8.
I have
needed to show affection
to people.
preferred to maintain
a certain distance
with people.
9.
When presented with
a new experience,
I've usually asked
myself if it would
be
useful to me.
enjoyable.
10.
I have tended to
focus too much on
myself.
others.
11.
Others have depended
on my
insight and knowledge.
strength and decisiveness.
12.
I have come across
as being too
unsure of myself.
sure of myself.
13.
I have been more
relationship-oriented
than goal-oriented.
goal-oriented than
relationship-oriented.
14.
I have
not been able to
speak up for myself
very well.
been outspoken—I've
said what others
wished they had
the nerve to say.
15.
It's been difficult
for me to
stop considering
alternatives and
do something definite.
take it easy and
be more flexible.
16.
I have tended to
be
hesitant and procrastinating.
bold and domineering.
17.
My
reluctance to get
too involved has
gotten me into trouble
with people.
eagerness to have
people depend on
me has gotten me
into trouble with
them.
18.
Usually, I have
been able to put
my feelings aside
to get the job done.
needed to work through
my feelings before
I could act.
19.
Generally, I have
been
methodical and cautious.
adventurous and
taken risks.
20.
I have tended to
be a
supportive, giving
person who enjoys
the company of others.
serious, reserved
person who likes
discussing issues.
21.
I've often felt
the need to
be a "pillar of
strength."
perform perfectly.
22.
I've typically been
interested in
asking tough questions
and maintaining
my independence.
maintaining my stability
and peace of mind.
23.
I've been too
hard-nosed and skeptical.
soft-hearted and
sentimental.
24.
I've often worried
that
I'm missing out
on something better.
if I let down my
guard, someone will
take advantage of
me.
25.
My habit of
being "stand-offish"
has annoyed people.
telling people what
to do has annoyed
people.
26.
Usually, when troubles
have gotten to me,
I have
been able to "tune
them out."
treated myself to
something I've enjoyed.
27.
I have
depended upon my
friends and they
have known that
they can depend
on me.
not depended on
people; I have done
things on my own.
28.
I have tended to
be
detached and preoccupied.
moody and self-absorbed.
29.
I have liked to
challenge people
and "shake them
up."
comfort people and
calm them down.
30.
I have generally
been an
outgoing, sociable
person.
earnest, self-disciplined
person.
31.
I've usually
been shy about showing
my abilities.
liked to let people
know what I can
do well.
32.
Pursuing my personal
interests has been
more important to
me than having comfort
and security.
Having comfort and
security has been
more important to
me than pursuing
my personal interests.
33.
When I've had conflict
with others, I've
tended to withdraw.
rarely backed down.
34.
I have
given in too easily
and let others push
me around.
been too uncompromising
and demanding with
others.
35.
I've been appreciated
for my
unsinkable spirit
and great sense
of humor.
quiet strength and
exceptional generosity.
36.
Much of my success
has been
due to my talent
for making a favorable
impression.
achieved despite
my lack of interest
in developing "interpersonal
skills."